When you got married, you thought it would be forever!

Even if you didn’t plan the details of your future together, you probably had a sense of what your life would be like.  Even if you knew that there would be ups and downs and good and bad, you probably didn’t include a divorce and a broken heart in your plans.  It’s more likely that you were confident that you would be the couple that beat the odds and stayed together forever.  Isn’t that what you promise to do in the typical wedding ceremony?

Divorce is a painful experience even if your heart isn’t broken.

A broken heart brings an entire set of feelings and actions that can leave you feeling vulnerable and exposed.  You must invite in your conscious awareness in order to leave your marriage with your dignity intact.

While you may have reason to be hurt and angry, your desire to be right can strip you of your dignity.  It is normal to blame and point fingers, but this will only keep you stuck in the pain.  So, with a broken heart to heal, how do you divorce with dignity?

Get support!

If you are fortunate, you will have a supportive family and friends that do not fuel the anger and resentment that you may be feeling.  Remember that your righteous feelings are a defense mechanism to protect you from the pain, but it cannot protect you!  The pain will only be compounded by bitterness and resentment.

The concepts taught in Spiritual Divorce(tm) have the power to heal your heart while keeping your dignity intact.  As you move through the spiritual laws of divorce, you will find yourself using your pain to powerfully heal your heart.

While going through a divore, emotions can carry you away and you may find that you are doing and saying things that you never thought you would or could.  This is where you must come back to yourself, know who you are, and take actions that are in alignment with who you know yourself to be.  This is not the ‘high road,’ this is much bigger than that.

When you are living true to who you want to be regardless of what’s happening around you, then you will retain your dignity.  Get the support you need so that you can walk away knowing that you were an authentic expression of yourself, even as you sit with a broken heart.