Comments on: My Heart Heals With the Law of Acceptance http://myheartheals.com/my-heart-heals-with-the-law-of-acceptance/ Relationship Coaching Fri, 20 May 2011 03:24:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.2 By: Terri http://myheartheals.com/my-heart-heals-with-the-law-of-acceptance/comment-page-1/#comment-3 Terri Sat, 14 Mar 2009 04:52:01 +0000 http://myheartheals.com/?p=23#comment-3 This message really struck home with me. I have been divorced for many years, when my ex husband decided he needed a younger woman and moved me out and her in while I was away for the summer. I had never really looked at the reality of this until now. For a very long time I had hung on to an illusion, it was her fault and she would never really be his wife. I would always be his "real" wife no matter what. In reality I set the whole thing up, as much as it was my power to do and then let it happen. It was time for me to be gone, it was time for me to have another reality for myself , and yet, I would not, could not, let it go. This week, for the first time I admitted I was no longer his wife. He has another wife and another life. Over the years I would drive by the house, just to check things out.....OMG I mourned over all of it for a very long time and the other day I drove there and realized I hated it there. It was cold, isolated, lonely and I have to say it was a real surprise to feel so different than I thought I ever would. Before I was not ready, today I am. I am not sure without listening to the above videos how much longer it would have taken, I guess in the scheme of things it does not matter. I am grateful for it all. This message really struck home with me. I have been divorced for many years, when my ex husband decided he needed a younger woman and moved me out and her in while I was away for the summer. I had never really looked at the reality of this until now. For a very long time I had hung on to an illusion, it was her fault and she would never really be his wife. I would always be his “real” wife no matter what. In reality I set the whole thing up, as much as it was my power to do and then let it happen. It was time for me to be gone, it was time for me to have another reality for myself , and yet, I would not, could not, let it go.

This week, for the first time I admitted I was no longer his wife. He has another wife and another life. Over the years I would drive by the house, just to check things out…..OMG I mourned over all of it for a very long time and the other day I drove there and realized I hated it there. It was cold, isolated, lonely and I have to say it was a real surprise to feel so different than I thought I ever would.

Before I was not ready, today I am. I am not sure without listening to
the above videos how much longer it would have taken, I guess in the scheme of things it does not matter. I am grateful for it all.

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